cyane cyane abakobwa. Mugihe uhuye numuntu nkuyu, abakobwa ntibashobora kugenzura ibyiyumvo byabo n’amarangamutima mugukunda uwo muntu. Ashobora kumva afite isoni cyangwa ubwoba bwo kwerekana urukundo rwe, ariko ushobora gusobanukirwa nibimenyetso bimwe ko agushaka rwihishwa. Igihe muba muri kumwe aba ashaka kumarana nawe umwanya munini ,Abakobwa biragoye kuburyo batigera bagaragaza ibyiyumvo byabo byoroshye. Ashobora kuba afite inshuti nyinshi ninshuti nyinshi mubuzima bwe, ariko akomeza gushaka impamvu yo guhura nawe niba akwishimira . Ashobora kugerageza gukomeza kukwiyegereza mu buryo butaziguye Ikindi kandi akugirira ishyari . Niba wumva ufite urujijo, reba ibi bimenyetso kugirango umenye umukobwa muri kumwe niba ashobora kuba agukunda.
1 , Akenshi Aguhozaho Ijisho agahora akureba buri kimwe ukora
Nukuri bishidikanywaho ndetse bikunda kugorana kubona itumanaho rikomeye ry’abakobwa ntibashobora kugaragaza byoroshye ko bakunda umuhungu . Irakwereka ko, yaba agukunda cyangwa atagukunda. Niba akunze guhuza amaso nawe, noneho umenye neza ko uwo muntu afite isano ryimbitse kuri wowe . Birashobora kuba ishingiro ryumubano utandukanye cyane nubucuti nibindi bintu byose. Amaso ye azagaragaza urukundo n’amarangamutima hamwe nawe, kabone niyo yaba abeshya. Mu itsinda ryabantu, amaso ye akomeza kukwitaho niba agukunda byukuri.
2. Atangira kubiganiriza ababyeyi be
Mubisanzwe, umukobwa ashobora kumva afite ubwoba bwo kumenyekanisha umukunzi we imbere yababyeyi be. Nubwo yaba ategura kubivuga hanyuma ntagushidikanya arakwemera cyane. Yifuza ko ababyeyi be bamenya ibyiza by’umuhungu akunda kugirango bemere umubano we ejo hazaza nta mbogamizi. ntukeneye amagambo cyangwa ibimenyetso kugirango ubone amarangamutima ye.
